The Joys of Being an Erotica Writer

So one of the joys of being an Erotica Author is trying to come up with creative, sexy and seductive ways to describe sex. What's challenging is trying to come up with ways to describe the human body parts. I tend to use "pussy" and "cock". I'm not sure why those two words are so prevalent in my writing...but they just seem to fit my writing style. Now where this becomes difficult, is when a paragraph is overflowing with pussy and cock...seriously. I can't over use, so what words can I use?
Well, there are many:
Dick
Vagina
Penis
Manhood
Cunt
Shaft
and the list could go on and on.

So as I write, I have to figure out the right rhythm, the right feel, and yes...the right word! I don't want to offend, disgust or paint the wrong visual. For example, I'm not going to use the word "Vajayjay" or "Pecker". Those words are just plain wrong. Sometimes I laugh at the absurdity of where my thought process has to go as I write. I ask myself if all Erotica Authors have this challenge. Do they all struggle with the over use of pussy, or having too much cock? Hmmm...the joys of erotica. :)